Edging
Introduction
Edging, also known as orgasm control, is a sexual technique that involves maintaining a high level of sexual arousal for an extended period without reaching orgasm. This practice can be carried out alone or with a partner and is often associated with other forms of sexual play, such as BDSM and erotic sexual denial.
History
The practice of edging has been around for centuries, although the term itself is relatively modern. It is believed to have originated from Eastern sexual practices, such as Tantric sex, where sexual energy is built up and then controlled to enhance the sexual experience.
Techniques
There are several techniques used in edging, which can vary depending on whether the practice is being performed solo or with a partner.
Solo Edging
Solo edging, often referred to as masturbation control, involves a person stimulating themselves up to the point of orgasm but then stopping before reaching climax. This can be achieved through a variety of methods, such as varying the speed and pressure of stimulation, changing the type of stimulation, or by using sex toys designed for this purpose.
Partner Edging
In partner edging, one partner controls the other's arousal. This can involve a variety of techniques, such as hand stimulation, oral sex, or the use of sex toys. The controlling partner will bring the other to the brink of orgasm, then reduce or stop stimulation to prevent climax. This can be repeated multiple times, building up a high level of arousal.
Benefits and Risks
Edging has several potential benefits, as well as some risks, which should be considered before engaging in this practice.
Benefits
Edging can enhance sexual pleasure by building up a high level of arousal over an extended period. This can lead to more intense orgasms when climax is eventually reached. It can also be a useful technique for those experiencing premature ejaculation, as it can help to build control over the timing of orgasm.
Risks
While edging can be a pleasurable practice, it is not without risks. These can include physical discomfort or pain if the practice is carried out for too long, or psychological distress if the delay of orgasm becomes frustrating. It is important to communicate with a partner during edging to ensure that the practice remains enjoyable for both parties.
In Popular Culture
While edging is a sexual practice, it has also found its way into popular culture. It has been referenced in various forms of media, including books, films, and television shows, often as a form of comedic or dramatic device.